成功人士原则 第一个 积极主动 Be proactive第二个 以终为始 Begin with the End in mind第三个 要事第一 First Things First第四个 双赢思想 Think Win-Win第五个 先听后说 Seek First to understand then to be understood第六个 综合综效 SYNERGIZE第七个 不断更新 SHARPEN THE SAW