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Love You, Mean It: A True Story of Love, Loss and Friendship |  |
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Love You, Mean It: A True Story of Love, Loss and Friendship | |
Time heals all wounds, they say. But when your husband dies suddenly, on a glorious sunny day when all he did was go to work, it takes more than the passage of time to get you through. It takes the love and support of women who are exactly where you are -- and when you?re lucky enough to find them, you cling to each other until you?re strong enough to stand on your own. The truths you discover in the process are universal, compelling, and altogether inspiring.
That was the lesson learned by Pattie Carrington, Julia Collins, Claudia Gerbasi, and Ann Haynes, four thirty-something women whose husbands worked at the World Trade Center. Before September 11, 2001, they didn?t know each other, but in the months following that horrible day they came together, drawn as much by their diverse backgrounds as their shared tragedy. At their very first meeting, the foursome realized their bond was too special to ignore, and in no time their Widows? Club had cemented into a source of hope and, soon, love that saw them through their darkest hours, and forward. They took to signing off emails and phone conversations with a lighthearted phrase: Love You, Mean It. "Feeling this love for one another meant our hearts were beginning to open again. It was a risk -- love brought with it the ever-present possibility of loss. But this was a risk worth taking. More than ever, we understood how important it was to put love at the center of our lives."
A celebration of friendship, optimism, and empathy, Love You, Mean It is a shared memoir of rebuilt lives. It will offer hope to anyone who has suffered a loss, and exhilarate readers from coast to coast.
作者简介 Patricia Carrington married Jeremy "Caz" Carrington in 2000. Today, Pattie is a Managing Director at Deutsche Asset Management and lives in Brooklyn with her dog, Lola. Julia Collins moved to New York in 1997, where she met and later married Tom Collins in 2000. She works for the National Football League in their consumer products division, and lives in Manhattan. Claudia Gerbasi married Bart Ruggiere in 2000. She is a sales director for Cole Haan and lives with her current husband, John Donovan, in downtown Manhattan. Ann Haynes married Ward Haynes in 1994. A financial advisor, Ann recently stopped working in order to devote more time to her three children and their home in Rye, New York.
专业书评 From Publishers Weekly
Four young women widowed by the 9/11 attacks on the World Trade Center were so bereft, so inconsolable, that they ended up forming their own support group, the "Widows Club." True, they found sympathy everywhere—from in-laws, co-workers, friends, grief professionals—but even their dearest intimates couldn't offer the absolutely unconditional acceptance and understanding of a sister sufferer. Collins could weep and tell stories about Tommy for hours, days or years, and Haynes wouldn't find it tiresome. Gerbasi could tell Carrington she'd seen "signs" of Bart—a bird outside her window, a bedside light flickering—and Carrington would understand, because her Caz was also sending messages. None of these women were interested in being "the perfect September 11 widow," working on protest committees, testifying before Congress and organizing fund-raisers. They just wanted to get through a day without dissolving into tears. In interfolded accounts, they each discuss how they met their husbands, how they spent September 11 and all the many ways they grieved. In the end, they each found ways to open themselves to new love, careful to keep the "Boys" and the Widows Club ever dear. "Love you, mean it," they'd tell each other over and over—and readers will love them, too. Appearances on 20/20 and Good Morning America. (Sept.)
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From Booklist
Many books have been written about 9/11, but this collection is unique. All four contributors became widows when their husbands were killed in the terrorist attacks. Their shared experiences inspired them to form the "Widows Club." Now they write about how each of them met their spouses, their initial individual grief, and how bonds formed through sadness grew into a friendship that has led to evenings out and vacation getaways. It is clear that the women care a great deal for one another and that their friendships are critical to moving forward in their lives. In that respect, their book will transcend interest in 9/11 and extend to anyone who has lost a partner in a sudden and unexpected way. Unfortunately, though, the narrative shifts from joint third person to singular first person, which proves confusing at key points. Nonetheless, this is recommended for readers looking for a largely nonpolitical and intensely personal viewpoint on 9/11's aftermath. Colleen Mondor
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